Your mother is obviously very upset and needs some healing time. However, the reliance on alcohol to take pain away can have serious consequences. Talk to your mom and let her know that you’re there for her. Maybe she feels like she has no one to turn to. Don’t immediately tell her to stop drinking cause this may cause anger. Alcohol is her security blanket now and it will take some time before she can let that go.
If the drinking starts to get out of hand contact someone you trust.
I’m unsure of how serious this answer really is, but if your hate for people has come to the point where you don’t have the patience to interact with anyone its time to do something about it. Go see a psychologists or talk to someone you feel comfortable around. Hate often masks other emotions and it can be a relief to get to the bottom of this. x
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While colleges can be notorious for their parties and crazy lifestyle there’s a lot of other people that feel the same way as you. To avoid distraction you could get a single dorm if thats possible. At some colleges they even have special buildings just for those who want to get the most out of their studies. While it wouldn’t hurt to go out and do something fun every now and then and blow of some steam, living in a single dorm really helps avoid distraction and pressure to go out. When filling out room applications, often you can say what type of roommate you want. By making clear that you’d prefer a roommate like yourself you can avoid getting roomed with a crazy, outgoing, partier. good luck! x
Hi there. It is not always true that once a cheater always a cheater; it depends on the person really. Generally, if he cheated on his ex for you because he loved you more he probably won’t cheat on you because he chose you. But if it was just for the physical things at first, then no one can be certain.Ultimately, though, it depends on the person. If you know him well enough to realize his opinions and morals on life, and if you know he will always be there for you, then don’t worry. If he is acting weird, then you have every right to be suspicious.
